4 Secrets to a happy marriage.... 1. It is important to find a man who works around the house, cooks and cleans, and helps care for the kids, and who makes money. 2. It is important to find a man who loves to spend money on you, and show you a good time. 3. It is important to find a man who's good in bed and who loves to have sex with you. 4. It is important that these three men never meet.