Suicide is not painless by Saul Singer Jerusalem Post May 30, 2002 As an American, she might have aspired to be a nun. In Israel she would probably have poured her soul into community service. In would-be Palestine, Thauriya Hamamreh decided to become a suicide bomber. David Rudge's interview with Hamamreh in yesterday's Jerusalem Post is a riveting document. One might assume that anyone so bent on mass murder that they would be willing to take their own life would be burning with hatred. Hamamreh, who was so petite that there was not enough room to strap the standard bomb belt on her, said she had decided to become a martyr for "personal reasons." Anger at Israel was clearly a factor, but her underlying belief was the need for jihad to "create a just and equal, non-corrupt society by the spread and unification of Islam." Palestinian society may be the first on earth to transform suicide and murder into a form of social work. Terrorist groups claim they try to weed out people who, like Hamamreh, are suicidal and want to harness their depression in the name of a grand cause. We can't have people who actually want to die killing themselves, goes this logic. But Hamamreh's mixed motivations are probably much more typical than they are made out to be. To the cynical masterminds who send young people out to die, suicide bombing is a "military" tactic. Along the way, however, the Palestinians have developed a culture of suicide that may not be so easily dismantled, even once they decide to try. For a chilling preview, Palestinians had better look at what happened in an island paradise far away from their troubles. In the early 1960s, suicide was almost unknown in Micronesia. By the end of the 1980s, there were more suicides in this sparse archipelago than anywhere else in the world. Teens began killing themselves for trivial reasons being yelled at by a sibling, not having a graduation gown, or because a girlfriend had been seen with another boy. Anthropologist Donald Rubinstein traced Micronesia's suicide epidemic and seems to have found its origins. On the island of Ebeye in May 1966 after a decade without a single suicide an 18-year-old boy hanged himself in jail after his arrest for stealing a bicycle. Six months later, the well-known son of one of the island's wealthiest families hanged himself when he could not decide between his two girlfriends, having fathered a child with each. His lovers fainted on his grave, having met there for the first time. Three days later, a 22-year old hanged himself over marital difficulties. The epidemic was on. Other research, as Malcolm Gladwell noted in The Tipping Point, found that "suicide can be contagious." Studies in the US found that immediately after newspaper accounts of suicides, suicide rates jumped. Marilyn Monroe's suicide was followed by a temporary 12 percent increase in the national suicide rate. In Micronesia, and elsewhere, of course, suicide can be contagious even when there is no support for it in the surrounding culture. Now imagine a situation in which suicide generates global not just national headlines, happens with dizzying frequency, is associated with a glorious struggle and is rewarded with instant heroism rather than shame. In such a culture Hamamreh's choice becomes rational. Why jump off a building in ignominy, when blowing up in a crowded cafe can secure your place in heaven, not to mention history? Some have made the point that suicide bombing has little to do with desperation, but is the opposite a macabre expression of hope in the future. Actually it is has become a mishmash of both, and something else: a fad. Hamamreh became disillusioned when her handlers told her to blow herself up if she was caught, even if she was not in the middle of a crowd. "I felt like they were playing a game with the blood of the martyrs," she explained. It is more than the "martyrs' " blood these men are playing with. They have deliberately seeded a cultural suicide epidemic. Like their counterparts in nature, cultural epidemics are not easy to start, but they are even harder to control. Even if word comes from the top that suicide bombing is no longer in the Palestinian interest, this does not really negate the cultural cues that have already been established. All other suicide epidemics, after all, started in places where suicide was already frowned upon. Antidotes may be few, but one was recently demonstrated. When the Taliban were put out on their ears in Afghanistan, Osama bin Laden T-shirts suddenly became less popular in Peshawar. Bin Laden tried to start a terror epidemic and the US, through decisive military action, was able to stop it in its tracks, at least temporarily. Operation Defensive Shield, though relatively effective, was essentially an aborted version of the US action, stopping far short of "regime change." There is no precedent for the breadth of the suicide cult the Palestinians have created. What seems clear, however, is that the Palestinians will need a lot of help in snuffing it out.