ONE OF THE GREAT attributes of man that has
extolled in literature and art, is his great
skill as a builder. In the earliest chapters
of the Torah, we are told of Cain who built
a city. He was a failure as a man--having committed
fratricide, but was presumably good as a builder.
Later on in the Bible we are told of Nimrod,
the great hunter, who built a tower. Then there
were David and Solomon who built palaces an the
magnificent Temple in Jerusalem.
Among non-Jews there were the Egyptians who built
the pyramids and Sphinxes which, to this day, are
some of the great marvels of the world; the Greeks
erected lovely artistic edifices; the Romans built
aqueducts and roads; and the Chinese built the
Great Wall. In the United States we have erected
skyscrapers such as the World Trade Center and
the Empire State Building, and in France there is
the Eiffel Tower.
But this morning I would like to discuss with you
a different kind of building, more complicated and
difficult than those that are fashioned from brick,
mortar and lime. I would like to speak to you of
building human character, which many consider the
most important goal in life.
The very first task in erecting a sturdy structure
is to build a solid foundation. Buildings that stand
on weak foundations are in danger of toppling over.
That, in fact, is what happened to the Broadway
Central Hotel in lower Manhattan several years ago.
There are structures that stand seemingly stable and
secure. Then the crisis comes--a storm or a flood--
and the faulty foundation gives way, and brings death
and ruin to many.
It is so with life. We all need solid foundations,
particularly in moments of crisis and need. One can't
build life on flimsy ideas and fads, just as one can't
build a house on quicksand.
Wealth is quicksand upon which one can't build life.
It will not bring solace to a person in moments of
sorrow or pain. To make money a major motive in life
is to reduce man to a beast that seeks only to satiate
its hunger by devouring its prey. The acquisitive
instinct does not play a decisive role in creative art,
the advancement of science or the inspired writings and
teachings of the great. Why an Isaiah, a Maimonides,
a Rashi, or a Chofetz Chayinz? Why an
Einstein or a Lincoln in the secular realm? These men,
and countless other luminaries often pursued their quest
for truth and beauty despite poverty and physical pain.
Social position is another mound of quicksand. Those who
seek prestige and glory to which they are not entitled,
live a lie, which ultimately will catch up with them.
What one really is will sooner or later be revealed, and
the edifice that he built on that faulty foundation will
come tumbling down.
What then should one build his life on? What kind of
principles should he choose! All we need do is study the
lives of the great men who are mentioned in the Torah and
see how they chose the foundations of their existence.
Abraham built it on chessed-on kindness; Isaac on
sacrifice for God; Jacob on a life of study; Rabbi Akiba
on kidush ha-Shem; Hillel on gentility and patience.
The next requirement of building a good life is fidelity to
details. It is not so much what we do as how we do it that
is significant. If a man gives tzedakah let him do
it with "a full heart." If he does a favor for someone by
extending a loan or credit, or providing employment,
let him do it besever panim yafot, with a
happy demeanor.
Phidias, the famous Greek artist, was carving a statue to
be placed on the shaft of the Parthenon. Someone said to
him that since the statue would be very high no one
would be able to see any blemishes. To which the artist
replied. "You're wrong. Even though the eye of man
will not be able to see any defects, the eyes of God will."
There is an even better Yiddish story that stresses the
same point. Rabbi Israel Salanter, the saint and sage of
Lithuanian Jewry, engaged one summer day, a baal agolah
-a wagoner-- to take him to a neighboring town. As they went
along the road, the driver noticed fresh-cut hay drying in
the sun. He stopped his horse and asked the rabbi to let
him know as soon as he would detect anyone looking. When the
baal agolah was carrying an armful of hay to his
horse, Rabbi Salanter cried, "Men Zeht Men Zeht!"
The driver dropped the hay, jumped into the wagon, pulled on
the reins of his horse and was on his way again.
After a while, he looked around, and noticing that no one was
on the road, said reproachfully, "Rebbe, how come you
told me a lie?" To which the rabbi replied, "I did not tell
you a lie." And pointing to the sky, he continued,
"itlen Zeht Men Zeht foon oiben!"
"You were seen from above."
Ah yes! In the words of the Mishnah, "Consider three
things and you will not come into the grip of sin--know
what is above you: a seeing eye, a hearing ear, and a book
in which all your deeds are recorded" (Abot 2:1).
The Mishnah presents a good plan for building
good character.
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