ONE SUMMER I spent a number of hours in the company
of a successful businessman. During the course of a
conversation he recalled with deep nostalgia and tenderness
the days of his childhood which he passed in a traditional
shtetel in Eastern Europe. There was a lump in
his throat and a tear in his eye as he spoke of his father,
a venerable talmid chacham , a learned and sincere
Jew, and his mother--a revered eshet chayil --a woman
respected for her tzeniut , her modesty and piety,
and beloved for her kindness and helpfulness. "Ah!" said he
with feeling. "Ah, how I have drifted from that kind of life!
The non-Jewish environment I have had to live in and the
business jungle I have had to contend with have made
many demands on me and I had to yield most of the cherished
observances and ideals that were taught to me at home and at
school in the Old Country." And when I remarked that his
excuse was not very convincing, he was disappointed.
"Rabbi," he said. "You do not seem to appreciate the pressures
I had to face when I came to this strange land as a youth. When
I studied chumash as a child, I was taught that even
Jacob had to make concessions to Esau when he had to
deal and live with him. It was Esau who dominated the scene
and it was Jacob who did the bending, the bowing and the
yielding."
Hlis reference, of course, was to the incident described in
our sidrah which relates how Jacob went out of
his way to appease his brother Esau. "And he took of that
what had come into his hand a present for Esau his brother....
For he said: I will appease him wich the present that goeth
before me, and afterwards I will see his face; perhaps he will
receive me kindly" (Gen. 32: 14, 21).
Looking at that gentleman who was pleased with himself
that after all these years he was still able to quote a text in
support of his laxity and backsliding, I thought of the familiar
adage that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. Had the
man taken the rime and trouble to check closely on that
biblical story, he would have reached the very opposite
conclusion, and would see in it an indictment of his conduct
as a Jew. Sure, Jacob was willing to give to Esau! But what?
He sent Esau rams and goats and camels--material things which
the Patriarch had earned with the labor of his hands and the
sweat of his brow. But he did not yield any of his convictions
or change the mode of his life in order to ingratiate himself
in the eyes of Esau.
This thought is stressed in Rashi's comment on
the phrase min haba beyado , "from what had come
into his hand." He states that it refers to "precious stones and
pearls which a person binds in a bundle and carries them
in his hand. Another interpretation is that he gave
min hachulim , of the profane and unconsecrated things"
(Ibid. 32:14). Jacob did not hesitate to give money, jewels and
cattle as a price for the goodwill of Esau. He parted with things
that pass from hand to hand, items that belong to one today
and to another the next day. "Here are my sheep and my camels,"
Jacob said, "Take my jewels and my precious stones. They are
profane items that can be replaced. But my heart and my brain,
my neshamah and my faith are sacred to me, and
I will not part from them until the very end of my life."
The Patriarch left this legacy to his children. He instructed
the bearer of the gifts, "When Esau my brother should meet
thee, and ask thee saying: whose art thou and whither art
thou going and for whom are these before theel Then shalt
thou say: they belong to thy servant Jacob; it is a present
sent unto my lord Esau" (Ibid 32:18-19).
I see in these words of Jacob an instruction to his
descendants. "If Esau and all whom Esau represents, should
cofront you with the question lemi ata veana tolech ulemi
eleh lefanecha , to whom do you belong, what is your
destination and whom do all these things belong? Your answer
should minchah hee sheluchah le'esav . It is a gift
sent to Esau. Even though we worked hard for it and earned it
honestly, we are willing to give it to you if that will satisfy the
demands that you make upon us. But as to the question
lemi ata veana tolech , to whom do we belong and
what is our goal in life, we wish to make it very clear that
we --our hearts and our souls--belong to no one but
to Jacob, and our ultimate destination is to return to our
ancient home."
This legacy was not limited to one generation. "And so he
commanded also the second, also the third, also all the droves
that followed" (Ibid. 32:20). Jacob ordered every suceeding
generation of his descendants to emulate his example. Jews
may have bowed down in Poland to the uncouth poretz
and in Russia to an officer of the army and the police; they may
have had to give their hard-earned possessions to the vicious
Esaus of the generations. They yielded on everything that
came under the heading of chulin , profane, material.
But when the same nemesis ordered them to violate the
Sabbath, or eat non-kosher food, they would permit
themselves to be incarcerated or dogged even unto death
rather than comply. When the question of kodoshim
--sacred matters--were involved, the seeming cowards
surprised their enemies with an unusual exhibition of courage and heroism.
See what a picture the full knowledge of the text reveals!
What a difference there was between the true meaning of the
story of Jacob and Esau, and what my companion saw in it!
The fact is that by imputing wrong motives to Jacob he
found justification for his own deviations and backsliding.
With him ''sheep, and goats and camels" and all that is
mundane were of prime importance. What he wouldn't do
to protect them! He would fight like a lion if the union would
demand an increase in the wage scale or shortening of the
hours of his employes. Bur he would never put up even a
semblance of a struggle to observe Sabbaths and Holidays or
to provide his children with a Yeshiva education.
To sell the kodoshim and to fight for chulim ,
how typical of Jewish life in America it is! The least discrimination
in the commercial arena arouses us to concerted action. This is
as it should be. We should protect our hard-won rights. But
look how we squander the sacred possessions of the ages!
And that at a time when the Esaus of today do not demand of
us to renounce our holy faith. On the contrary, a Jew is
respected in non-Jewish quarters for remaining true to the
tenets of Judaism. Let us therefore resolve to shield and
protect our kodoshim , the cherished and sacred
treasures of Israel.
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